[Dean Aspects]

Matt
Thanks for the kind words it feels like this has only ever happened to me and no one knows what it feels like but your words show that others have been are are currently going through the same thing
Fortunately we do have some time left and i will treasure every moment she wants family and people around her she likes to have people around her its what makes her happy
It must have been hard for you only getting three days im also sorry for your loss

[Moderator David@stives]

My Mother was diagnosed with Liver Cancer 2 weeks before she died. It was hard but you had time to deal with it,

I sat at her side when she took her last breaths, somehow that made it a lot easier to deal with.

When my Brother died who was 19, that was a lot harder to take, it was sudden and totally unexpected, no time to prepare whatsoever.

Just be there for your mum.

Dave

[Oakley Windows]

Matt
Thanks for the kind words it feels like this has only ever happened to me and no one knows what it feels like but your words show that others have been are are currently going through the same thing
Fortunately we do have some time left and i will treasure every moment she wants family and people around her she likes to have people around her its what makes her happy
It must have been hard for you only getting three days im also sorry for your loss

3 days was okay actually Dean, it could have been worse.

We were glad in a selfish/odd/strange kind of way that that was it.

In fact there was also humor. On one ocassion Mum was lying in bed, she died at home, she'd just cracked a joke, no-one actually laughed as we were all so wound up in the emotion of it all, and she responded in a sarcastic way 'Whats the matter? I aint dying you know!' Amazing!

[Oakley Windows]

There are things you can do as well after your Mum has gone.

My Mum was a member of the RSPB so I continued her membership but in my name.
I also donate monthly to Macmillan.
I do things for old ladies and customers that I sometimes think I should have done for my Mum, I kinda pretend theyre my Mum I guess, maybe Mums watching me do it and approves; whatever, I know its good to do.

I used to talk to Mum at work after she died, that felt good too. When I see some types of birds flying (birds of prey  in particular) I think more of Mum as she loved those things.

All may sound silly to some, but these things have helped me.

Matt

[R W C]

My missus was worried and went to doctors yesterday, nurse found a lump in her breast and she has a ppointment next Thursday for tests, fingers crossed that all will be ok.

Chris

[Dean Aspects]

RWC
Hope everything goes well
Dave/Matt all good points you have made
Feeling a little better now as i have just spent all the afternoon with her and shes in good spirits and looking better after the trauma of the op also making jokes i realise the worst is to come and definately i will be there as much as possible which is why i am cutting back drastically on my work new priorities now theirs plenty of time later for work

[Window Washers]

RWC
Hope everything goes well
Dave/Matt all good points you have made
Feeling a little better now as i have just spent all the afternoon with her and shes in good spirits and looking better after the trauma of the op also making jokes i realise the worst is to come and definately i will be there as much as possible which is why i am cutting back drastically on my work new priorities now theirs plenty of time later for work

I shut mine down to half tilt, got a few moaning customers (and lost them because of it, some I canceled there and then )  :

[Window Washers]

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