Sanity i never took what you said personally, i worked up until 2 weeks ago with adults with learning difficulties and my daughter of 6 has a condition called TSC ( h ttp://www.tuberous-sclerosis.org/about-tuberous-sclerosis/ ) which includes having tumors of her brain and other organs, the thing is these special people are lucky in a way as they dont see the bad that goes on in this world and you could say what you want and they wouldnt care and would smile and just carry on with there life, i have dealt with this myself with some obnoxious people before and believe me there are some nasty people out there. But also retarded isnt a world taken lightly in this country anymore its ever special needs or learning difficulties.
Chris