Then just move the connector as far up the hose as you need, I just said a few inches but whatever suits.
I used to do just that with a barbed joiner, found that a push fit joiner would snag and pull off when extending the pole. I now use rectus fittings in the same way exceed do.
I won't change your mind and that's ok, but it is an improvement and a lot more durable if that's the way you wish to work.
All that exceed and wcw have done is refine the principle, I don't think its silly.