I think you know what I mean.
And I think you agree.
I'm not sure I am. If you're saying I chose to drink to much, I disagree. And if you're saying I chose to be an alcoholic, I disagree with that too. That would - on the face of it - be stupid.
I think the problem is that you don't understand what the problem is. Alcoholism/addiction isn't a problem of choice, it's a problem of 'no choice'. Humans are often driven by their feelings. We feel and those feelings create intentions; feelings are the generator - the engine - of everything we do. Feelings not only create intentions, but they condition intentions too.
Being mindful of our actions - as you are with your drinking - is great. But I didn't have the choice to be mindful at the time. And you're only mindful because you're smart enough to be mindful, I wasn't. You didn't choose to be smart, either; that's based on causes and conditions (outside of your control) too. So put that pride down, Poleking, you don't deserve it. Credit it to God if you like.
I'm just helping you to be less judgemental. If you still don't understand, I'm happy with that; no skin of my good-looking nose.
But knowing what I know now, if I could actually choose to be a recovered alcoholic, rather than a normal drinker, I'd choose to be an alcoholic any day.