Bosh,
Have you read the power of now by eckhart tolle? Whislt I'm skeptical about some things he says, some of it's very interesting perspective, he says now is the only reality the past and future don't exsist, only in thoughts, the past happened in a previous now, the future and past are just thoughts in our mind. We never live life in the future or past. Now is the only reality. Now is all we ever have. Therefore make the most of it, never think in one year il do this then be happy.. Because you miss the now!
Which can only be a good message.