Thanks for a ll the suggestions and best wishes , I have been overwhelmed . it was quite easy to get banned . 
3 points Jan 08 for 48 in a 40 , Mike will know the road , at end of M62  going into Hull , goes from a 70 to a 40 . 
6 points , 37 in a 30 in Range rover sport (no longer have it) I did not send the form back on time admitting the offence , which in itself was an offence hence the 6 points. 
3points today , and there you go , no driving for 6 months! . 
I will use that idea mike about leaflets with the driver.