Just had a quick google, cost to have this fixed privately between 2K-4K I think I'd consider this over a year half wait for NHS . I guess if you're able to still work without any down time before surgery it's worth waiting, but I'd consider loss of earnings over going private, tough decision I guess as even after private treatment you've got recovery down time.
Indeed.
I am working with a belt thingy but I find I am being 'careful' and not wanting to strain anything as it wasn't pleasant waiting in A&E and having it pushed back into place.
Also don't want it to get bigger and need urgent/ or bigger surgery if possible. Stitch in time (literally

) and all that!
Carefully looking at this place and reviews of it. The lead guy is a hernia specialist.
Oxford Hernia Clinic: Private Hernia Repair Surgery
https://share.google/incojV5lCm9AsBskRThey are answering my damnfool questions very promptly over the last two working days.