Ian:
Do it the way I do - seemples

Despite what some say about the difference between winter and summer production, I've never found it varies that much.
First mark your holding tank with the current water level. Then run your RO for a timed period (preferrably in multiples of 1 hour). Measure from the first mark to the new level and divide by the number of hours run - this give you the hourly production figure. Mark a grid on you tank in hours. Now you can see at a glance how long you need to run to fill up.
Buy a timer switch that allows you to set it to just 'switch off' (Not a recycling on-off type) and a 2-way adapter.
Fit a solenoid valve in your incoming water supply line (I just googled "solenoid valve" and did a bit of research - can't remember where I got it now)
Plug both the pump and the solenoid valve into the 2-way adapter and plug that into the timer.
Set your timer for the necessary number of hours to fill and switch it on. When the tank is full (ie the timer reaches the end of the period) it switches off.
Works for me.
Been doing this for years - so far foolproof