Matt
Why aren't you a self-employed carpenter, or builder, then? Why a widow cleaner? I am curious.
Mike
i was for years
when my eldest daughter was born, i packed in working for the MOD and was going to work for myself again, i had a number of jobs lined up, kitchens, 2 house full of new doors, a community hall refurb
a few weeks after i had started, my mother in law's partner ( who was / is a window cleaner ) was drunk and tried to skateboard down a path whilst we were at a BBQ , he broke his arm and leg, i was asked to help out ( and save his round ), so me being a nice guy put some of the work on hold and the few who couldnt wait i passed onto a old workmate, he sat in the car whilst i cleaned his round, when i stopped for my break at 10.30 i thought this isnt bad, its stress free etc etc. a few weeks pass and we bump into a old WC'er cleaning on the same round, he comes up and says he is ( semi ) retiring and would i like to buy some of his round, at 1 X the clean i thought that will do for when i dont have any building work on, so i buy a little, a few weeks pass again and my mother in laws partner is back working a little, i have a date to start a kitchen and a house full of new doors (
see note below ) i bump into a lad from oz, he is moving back to oz and would i like to buy his work ( some very nice commercial and not bad domestics ) didnt really want it, but the guy had sold his house and needed some money to live on, so i said " aye ok, i will buy it " so from starting out to a over full round inside a few months, as it happens i then took on all the old guys work a little later

i never did get time to take on any more building work
note belowi was asked to price a house full of doors, i gave them a price and they said i was slightly too expensive, could i do it for less, i told them no, they got the cheaper guy to do it and he did a crap job ( 3 doors would even shut and 2 doors had massive gaps under them ), i was asked to make a oak kitchen cupboard door to cover a new boiler, they said asked me to fix the doors that the guy had messed up, i gave them the same price to hand them from new ( it was the same work ) they said i could do the oak kitchen job if i did the doors for free, it really pee'ed me off and i told them no, this was the final straw
i also found myself pricing up jobs in the evenings and not spending a evening with my daughter, these people would then try and haggle / change details of the work and i would have to go back out and see them, thus even less time with my daughter, i had enough of it
also, as i work 3 days a week and look after my oldest daughter first ( she is in school ) and not my youngest , i couldnt hardly stop a kitchen job on the wednesday and say " see you next monday ", so i thought that window cleaning worked well for me