Personally, I don't think it's likely that you're to blame.
Double glazing doesn't last for ever and the quality of the units may differ.
How old are the units with the blown seals? I bet they're about 15 years old.
Point them in the direction of your local 'Window Doctor'; I've heard they're good (you can find them in the Yellow Pages). They'll remove the window, clean it up, replace the seals and put the window back in.