Water is an incredible substance, it has many amazing properties but the water we use isn't truly aggressive! No more so than simple rain...actually, come to think of it, you can get acid rain can't you, so rain is probably more aggressive ( on occasion).
And apart from Squeak's anecdotal evidence I have seen no scientific proof of it being able to strip polish off a car.
Some polish is silicone based, and it certainly won't shift a smear of silicone off a pane of glass!
For window cleaning purposes we measure the water in terms of PPM - parts per million - but for lab work it is measured in PPB - parts per billion - so the pure water we use isn't THAT pure!
Water that is zero parts per billion only freezes for instance at several degrees below zero, the pure we use will still freeze at very close to zero.
It is often said that the water we use wants to return to it's normal state, and thereby works differently to tap water. well perhaps it does, but again, I've never read anything other than anecdotal evidence...actually, not even that really...it's just what people say.
If anyone can show me the unbiased research papers that offer conclusive proof of these things then I'll stop viewing these claims so cynically, but until then I'll continue to take them with a pinch of salt!
Ian