it does come in phases, the key is to not stop looking for more work and then it does not seem that bad of a loss, one thing to remember though, has any x member of staff stole them from you? I lost 5 jobs last year to an x member of staff, really good jobs worth over £300 per week!
also i allways tell my girls. " we need to clean the customers house so good, so that if things get tight with the family budget, and the couple are disscussing ways of saving money, when cleaning is mentioned as a possible saver, it shoud be dissmissed with a, we can't do with out the cleaners there doing a fantastic job" but if its just a clean the cleaning will be first to go. and with a poor excuse.
keep your chin up and don't take it personel, it happens to every one at some stage. kind regards Phil