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James Styles

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Rude people when canvassing
« on: May 17, 2019, 08:35:28 pm »
Had a really rude person today while canvassing.
I was giving a guy a quote for front & back, he seemed pleasant then out of nowhere his gf/wife came to the door, she was polish, she just interrupted and starting saying to him “what?” In a rude manner he replied to her saying “it’s about window cleaning” she turned to me and said in an aggressive manner “how much?” I told her £15 (which is cheap as they had small conservatory) she just shook her head and said I had it done before for £5, I laughed and said no chance, she got all defensive and started saying that was for front I said well front would be £6, she then went quiet the husband then carried on talking to me while she gave a constant death stare, I seen her doing it and she didn’t stop, he said he would have a think then get back to me I said thanks and she gave me deep evil stare and slammed door in my face, nastiest evil bitch I’ve seen in a while.
I don’t think they will call and to be honest I don’t want them to, he seemed ok but noway I would want to deal with her.
I notice these rude people really get under my skin, how can I deal with this better?
It did annoy me a lot.

SB Cleaning

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2019, 08:37:28 pm »
Don't canvass  ;D ;D

andyM

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2019, 08:46:33 pm »
When dealing with the general public you have to occasionally expect that you will come in to contact with such people.
I call it the 1%.
In reality it's probably a bit less than that but through experience I've found that for every 100 customers you deal with 1 will be rude/weird/difficult/bonkers.
When you expect it will happen from time to time you tend to just brush it off.
I spoke to a customer of mine once who runs her own business and she has had similar experiences and she tended to agree with my outlook.   

My advice would be if you spot the signs in the beginning then try and avoid taking them on as a customer.
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AuRavelling79

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2019, 10:01:03 pm »
Sometimes you get a recommend from an existing customer and the prospective customer is "trouble".

I do a family that live across four properties.

The Mum is great and she pays me on the day or within a couple of days at most.
Daughter one is similar.
Daughter two is OK - ish and a slow payer (usually  after two weeks) who I have tolerated thus far.
Daughter in Law didn't get out of the starting block ...

I turned up on Mum-in-Law's request, met the husband who was showing me round and I quoted £40.00 for a large detached farmhouse type property every 8 weeks. He says it's fine but he will just check with his wife on the phone.

Wife says to him (while I'm there) "last time he did inside and outside for £40.00" which he relayed to me. I informed him and her listening in that i had never been to their place in my life before.

She (on speaker phone) says if I'll "do it for £40.00 inside and out "I've "got the deal".  ::)roll

I said I'm only here because your mother in law asked me to swing by and give you a quote, not to be beaten down on price.

She said "£50.00 inside and out, final offer."

I replied "No thanks, good-bye - final word!" and left him there with the phone as his wife yammered away as I walked off.

I still do all the others and not a word has been said.
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Missing Link

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2019, 10:48:30 pm »
she was polish, she just interrupted and starting saying to him “what?” In a rude manner he replied to her saying “it’s about window cleaning” she turned to me and said in an aggressive manner “how much?” I told her £15 (which is cheap as they had small conservatory) she just shook her head and said I had it done before for £5

Vote for The Brexit Party on the 23rd May.

That'll teach her.
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Missing Link

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2019, 10:51:46 pm »
I do a few houses in my own street.  A few weeks ago after cleaning one, a woman came running out (who I assumed was the mother of the bloke who lives in the house) saying that I'd 'only sprayed the windows with water' and that she 'has a window cleaner who does them properly'.

I explained that I've done her little boys windows for several years now, he's never had a problem, but if there is one, just to give me a knock 'cos I live at the end of the street.

A few days later I bumped into him and told him about his mum.  He said "Ignore her, she's mad!"

 ;D
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nathankaye

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #6 on: May 18, 2019, 12:01:21 am »
I find it easier not to help wind people up, ie laughing in their face can only antagonise the situation.
Be polite and respectful back if at all possible and in this case, as I'm sure you will start to do as you spend more time canvassing, thank them for their time rather than start to barter on price.
In this case, I would have ended it by simply saying, thank you for your time, as I can see you are not happy with the price and start to walk away.
This way, you have the last word, and don't waste any time getting mad about it and on with the next door
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James Styles

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #7 on: May 18, 2019, 12:39:49 am »
I find it easier not to help wind people up, ie laughing in their face can only antagonise the situation.
Be polite and respectful back if at all possible and in this case, as I'm sure you will start to do as you spend more time canvassing, thank them for their time rather than start to barter on price.
In this case, I would have ended it by simply saying, thank you for your time, as I can see you are not happy with the price and start to walk away.
This way, you have the last word, and don't waste any time getting mad about it and on with the next door

I was more than polite, she was very rude way before I laughed and it wasn’t in her face, it wasn’t a rude big laugh either more just a smile and slight laugh saying I won’t match £5. She was angry from the start.
I did say thank you before I left all I got back was a look that wanted me to drop dead followed by the door slamming.

Pete Thompson

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #8 on: May 18, 2019, 01:28:53 am »
Here’s a valuable tip:

Win over the lady of the house.

The husband will nearly always defer to her on matters of household management (such as window cleaning).

Jonny Swirljet

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #9 on: May 18, 2019, 05:53:33 am »
Sometimes you get a recommend from an existing customer and the prospective customer is "trouble".

I do a family that live across four properties.

The Mum is great and she pays me on the day or within a couple of days at most.
Daughter one is similar.
Daughter two is OK - ish and a slow payer (usually  after two weeks) who I have tolerated thus far.
Daughter in Law didn't get out of the starting block ...

I turned up on Mum-in-Law's request, met the husband who was showing me round and I quoted £40.00 for a large detached farmhouse type property every 8 weeks. He says it's fine but he will just check with his wife on the phone.

Wife says to him (while I'm there) "last time he did inside and outside for £40.00" which he relayed to me. I informed him and her listening in that i had never been to their place in my life before.



She (on speaker phone) says if I'll "do it for £40.00 inside and out "I've "got the deal".  ::)roll

I said I'm only here because your mother in law asked me to swing by and give you a quote, not to be beaten down on price.

She said "£50.00 inside and out, final offer."


I replied "No thanks, good-bye - final word!" and left him there with the phone as his wife yammered away as I walked off.

I still do all the others and not a word has been said.

Custards don't negotiate with their hairdressers or chiropodists - you don't go to the dentist and say how much is a filling? OK give me a discount of £10 and you've got a deal.   

tlwcs

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #10 on: May 18, 2019, 06:49:18 am »
James I know your building but really, £15 with a small conservatory. It’s Solihull right?
As for anyone who you think is rude, just thank them for their time and move on. Do you really want her as a customer even if he was ok?
Tony

Spruce

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #11 on: May 18, 2019, 07:00:51 am »
Had a really rude person today while canvassing.
I was giving a guy a quote for front & back, he seemed pleasant then out of nowhere his gf/wife came to the door, she was polish, she just interrupted and starting saying to him “what?” In a rude manner he replied to her saying “it’s about window cleaning” she turned to me and said in an aggressive manner “how much?” I told her £15 (which is cheap as they had small conservatory) she just shook her head and said I had it done before for £5, I laughed and said no chance, she got all defensive and started saying that was for front I said well front would be £6, she then went quiet the husband then carried on talking to me while she gave a constant death stare, I seen her doing it and she didn’t stop, he said he would have a think then get back to me I said thanks and she gave me deep evil stare and slammed door in my face, nastiest evil bitch I’ve seen in a while.
I don’t think they will call and to be honest I don’t want them to, he seemed ok but noway I would want to deal with her.
I notice these rude people really get under my skin, how can I deal with this better?
It did annoy me a lot.

I'm going with Nathan and a couple of other posters on this one. Even if they come out with the most ridiculous statement and your first reaction is to gasp at the stupidity of it, you have to keep your composure and treat the statement as a perfectly viable one. Even if its not and he/she is lying.

You just have to say that you are very sorry but you can't do the job for £5. You have to show you are apologetic, thank them for asking  for a price and bid them a good day. The way I look at it is that if it was the Queen of England you were talking, how would you have responded?  I'm sure Ma'am would have come into the answer and a bow would also.  ;D

Its all part of gaining experience which takes time. This experience will be in your memory bank and hopefully will help you to find a different approach if you encounter a similar situation again.

This lady had issues at that particular time. She may be a very nice person but you caught her at the wrong time. There has been a bit in the paper ( about Ulrika Jonsson ) recently how some women can become a totally different person when the menopause starts. Maybe this woman is a husband abuser, a control freek, who knows. As Tony says, would you want her as a customer even if she accepted your quote?

I always think you have to be like an undertaker when canvassing and show very little emotion but plenty of empathy. We heard that one of the lads at one of the local undertakers was fired for bringing the company into disrepute. A member of the public saw him laughing in a hearse that was carrying a coffin to a funeral.

Don't take it personally, wipe the dust off your feet and move on.

We live in the North East and there are areas locally where £5 for a 3 bed semi is still the perceived price for a window clean (£2.50 fronts and £2.50 backs).  But the customer won't tell you that that's every 2 weeks. If you are cleaning every 8 weeks, your clean at £15 is already saving them money on their window cleaning bill. A shiner off ladders will do 3 x £5 houses an hour and that's good money when compared to earning the minimum wage. It costs me around £4 to park my van outside each of my customers in running costs with wfp. That's before I pay myself a wage. So I now stay away from those areas.

BTW, I've not altogether mastered talking to customers with respect as I have a smart mouth which has often run off into the distance before my brain realised where it had gone. I found that saying "I would love to be able to clean your windows for £5 but the price of diesel isn't 25p a liter anymore" doesn't win them over.
Success is 1% inspiration, 98% perspiration and 2% attention to detail!

The older I get, the better I was ;)

Soupy

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #12 on: May 18, 2019, 07:10:24 am »
she was polish, she just interrupted and starting saying to him “what?” In a rude manner he replied to her saying “it’s about window cleaning” she turned to me and said in an aggressive manner “how much?” I told her £15 (which is cheap as they had small conservatory) she just shook her head and said I had it done before for £5

Vote for The Brexit Party on the 23rd May.

That'll teach her.

Every line of serious work that I have written since 1936 has been written, directly or indirectly, against totalitarianism and for democratic socialism, as I understand it - George Orwell

Spruce

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #13 on: May 18, 2019, 07:35:30 am »
Sometimes you get a recommend from an existing customer and the prospective customer is "trouble".

I do a family that live across four properties.

The Mum is great and she pays me on the day or within a couple of days at most.
Daughter one is similar.
Daughter two is OK - ish and a slow payer (usually  after two weeks) who I have tolerated thus far.
Daughter in Law didn't get out of the starting block ...

I turned up on Mum-in-Law's request, met the husband who was showing me round and I quoted £40.00 for a large detached farmhouse type property every 8 weeks. He says it's fine but he will just check with his wife on the phone.

Wife says to him (while I'm there) "last time he did inside and outside for £40.00" which he relayed to me. I informed him and her listening in that i had never been to their place in my life before.



She (on speaker phone) says if I'll "do it for £40.00 inside and out "I've "got the deal".  ::)roll

I said I'm only here because your mother in law asked me to swing by and give you a quote, not to be beaten down on price.

She said "£50.00 inside and out, final offer."


I replied "No thanks, good-bye - final word!" and left him there with the phone as his wife yammered away as I walked off.

I still do all the others and not a word has been said.

Custards don't negotiate with their hairdressers or chiropodists - you don't go to the dentist and say how much is a filling? OK give me a discount of £10 and you've got a deal.

Or Asda. No they don't, but we won't be the only service industry they will try price haggling with. It will be the plumber, electrician, roofer etc. as they don't see their prices as 'set in stone.'

One of our customers is a joiner and customers also try to haggle with him. His customer's aren't of the race that is known to price haggle. Mobile hairdressers also experience customers wanting added extras for nothing just like happens to us.

Will you just quickly put the brush over the gutters whilst you are here is a favourite one. "Yes, but it will cost you £......" "What? Don't bother then. I expected you to do it occassionally as part of the price you charge me for my windows. You aren't exactly cheap you know." Expect then to loose the job at some point in the future.
Success is 1% inspiration, 98% perspiration and 2% attention to detail!

The older I get, the better I was ;)

tlwcs

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #14 on: May 18, 2019, 07:37:03 am »
Had a really rude person today while canvassing.
I was giving a guy a quote for front & back, he seemed pleasant then out of nowhere his gf/wife came to the door, she was polish, she just interrupted and starting saying to him “what?” In a rude manner he replied to her saying “it’s about window cleaning” she turned to me and said in an aggressive manner “how much?” I told her £15 (which is cheap as they had small conservatory) she just shook her head and said I had it done before for £5, I laughed and said no chance, she got all defensive and started saying that was for front I said well front would be £6, she then went quiet the husband then carried on talking to me while she gave a constant death stare, I seen her doing it and she didn’t stop, he said he would have a think then get back to me I said thanks and she gave me deep evil stare and slammed door in my face, nastiest evil bitch I’ve seen in a while.
I don’t think they will call and to be honest I don’t want them to, he seemed ok but noway I would want to deal with her.
I notice these rude people really get under my skin, how can I deal with this better?
It did annoy me a lot.

I'm going with Nathan and a couple of other posters on this one. Even if they come out with the most ridiculous statement and your first reaction is to gasp at the stupidity of it, you have to keep your composure and treat the statement as a perfectly viable one. Even if its not and he/she is lying.

You just have to say that you are very sorry but you can't do the job for £5. You have to show you are apologetic, thank them for asking  for a price and bid them a good day. The way I look at it is that if it was the Queen of England you were talking, how would you have responded?  I'm sure Ma'am would have come into the answer and a bow would also.  ;D

Its all part of gaining experience which takes time. This experience will be in your memory bank and hopefully will help you to find a different approach if you encounter a similar situation again.

This lady had issues at that particular time. She may be a very nice person but you caught her at the wrong time. There has been a bit in the paper ( about Ulrika Jonsson ) recently how some women can become a totally different person when the menopause starts. Maybe this woman is a husband abuser, a control freek, who knows. As Tony says, would you want her as a customer even if she accepted your quote?

I always think you have to be like an undertaker when canvassing and show very little emotion but plenty of empathy. We heard that one of the lads at one of the local undertakers was fired for bringing the company into disrepute. A member of the public saw him laughing in a hearse that was carrying a coffin to a funeral.

Don't take it personally, wipe the dust off your feet and move on.

We live in the North East and there are areas locally where £5 for a 3 bed semi is still the perceived price for a window clean (£2.50 fronts and £2.50 backs).  But the customer won't tell you that that's every 2 weeks. If you are cleaning every 8 weeks, your clean at £15 is already saving them money on their window cleaning bill. A shiner off ladders will do 3 x £5 houses an hour and that's good money when compared to earning the minimum wage. It costs me around £4 to park my van outside each of my customers in running costs with wfp. That's before I pay myself a wage. So I now stay away from those areas.

BTW, I've not altogether mastered talking to customers with respect as I have a smart mouth which has often run off into the distance before my brain realised where it had gone. I found that saying "I would love to be able to clean your windows for £5 but the price of diesel isn't 25p a liter anymore" doesn't win them over.

You may not have mastered what to say to customers, but every post you write is superb. 😁

Soupy

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #15 on: May 18, 2019, 07:50:20 am »
Knock knock

Who's there?

Window cleaner

Window cleaner who?

Window cleaner who is going to laugh in your face when you try to negotiate on price.

Sorry, there's nobody home.
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G Griffin

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #16 on: May 18, 2019, 08:15:18 am »
Try to bring them down to size; have something on them; even if it's just imaginary.
If it's the man of the house, tell yourself he likes to dress in women's underwear. If it's the lady, tell yourself that she's rude because her husband is having an affair and she knows it (but not before you did and you also know about the underwear fetish which she doesn't  ;)).

I don't canvass but I've picked up enough customers over the years and some of them I have sort of looked up to. Good job, nice house, flash car etc but then I realise just what they are.
They're both miserable, the bins full of 'empties' and the grass needs a cut etc.
It's easier to look them in the eye when you 'know' and you realise why they are so rude. And you empathise, thank them and walk away (feeling a bit better about yourself).
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The Jester of Wibbly

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #17 on: May 18, 2019, 08:31:15 am »
Welcome to Real life.   

Not everyone is like the Waltons.

Good night Jimbob  ;D
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robbo333

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #18 on: May 18, 2019, 08:34:16 am »
Sometimes, if it wasn't for rude people, idiots and twats, I'd have no-one to talk to!  :'(
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The Jester of Wibbly

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Re: Rude people when canvassing
« Reply #19 on: May 18, 2019, 08:42:28 am »
There is a general hate for cold callers. Either door to door or unsolicited phone calls.    There are people out there that will deliberately try and waste your time and attempt to wind you up.

There is no getting away from it when cold calling.  Just smile and walk away, forget about it and move to the next.
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