Hi Chris, I'm the one that bought your wand on eBay, there is normally someone at home to receive packages but not guaranteed, obviously if we knew when it was going to arrive we could make sure somebody would be here, what couriers normally do is pop a card through the door with their phone number on so you can arrange a different time, never heard of them charging extra for the fact that you didn't know when they were coming (not exactly your fault is it)