I remember a quote i did about a year ago a wealthy old boy phoned me on a Saturday while i was watching my son play football, he wanted a quote and insisted i come round that afternoon which i did went to his big house measured all the room up gave him a full written quote etc.
The next day "Sunday" morning 9am again watching my son play in a match this time he phoned again to question me about my measurements of his house, " you have measured them wrong" i replied i know i have i always measure them smaller than they are i knew he was implying that i was trying to get one over on him by measuring the rooms bigger by the the tone of his voice, it was a big house over a 1000 just for the bedrooms.
As we went back and forth i decided the last thing i wanted was him breathing over my shoulder complaining while i was cleaning his carpets, so i told him right in the middle of him attempting to ask for a reduction, "well Mr ...... " your obviously not happy with my quote so i suggest you find someone else" his reaction was priceless

The point i am trying to make having been employed as a private investigator for over twenty years on a reasonable wage which was secure week in week out was i hated it, had no family life, was spoken to like poo by my boss.
Running my own business gives me CONTROL over my own destiny never under estimate the importance of that, i am free to take time off when i want, have money in my pocket and i can if i want decide NOT to do something just because i decide i don't want to.
Most high earners answer to the boss and are in high stress environments, my daughters grew up with me out most evenings they are grown up now and i regret i was not at home more, my young son and i spend a lot more time together because i call the shots.