I might be getting cynical in my old age but the last three times I have bid for something relatively expensive on E Bay the same thing has happened. I was the highest bidder until one other stepped in, taking the bidding from £981 to £1491, my last bid being £1471, then I receive a second chance offer to buy it for £1471.
"Hello, the person that placed the highest bid for the xxxx appears to be messing me about.I can not contact them and they have feedback that indicates that they are time wasters who place bids but don't buy the item.if you still want the xxxx please phone me on 078-- ------ regards xxxxxx"
I do wonder sometimes if people get their friends to bid up against my serious bid so If I win or take advantage of the second chance offer I am paying over the true auction price.