[Gav Camm lammy 283]

cant kill em
n bury under the patio  

[carl stanton]

all hard workers on our relationships here then!!!  

I just explain that I need to work this time, if i do not the roof over your head will not be there
say exactly what it costs you, what that would have paid with that lost earnings

and of course it would be best to start off by saying ''look love i appreciate where you are coming from but this is what it means when i lose this time for work,    or the like

its not being weak in talking and explaining, takes more effort in explaining but i am sure a more peaceful house is better than the headache

you can see my agony column every sunday    

[Window Washers]

cant kill em
n bury under the patio  

no Gav wrong forum, we are not kiiling people  :


 

[LWC]

Not so much my partner, well sometimes but other people have done this as if, "hes self employed he can finish when he feels like it."

Which is true yeh...but still gotta earn my wages! Tell her you gotta pay for the Porsche somehow mate  

[Gav Camm lammy 283]

cant kill em
n bury under the patio  

no Gav wrong forum, we are not kiiling people  :


 

he can play ciu rap for his defense

[colley614]

I would explain that you need to earn money and keep a roof over there heads. Also when employees are working their nuts off and seeing the employer popping home 'whenever he feels like' you get a bad vibe in the camp. Explain to her that you have to leads from the front. I would tell my wife that I open up, close up and lead the way in between. Your employees will respect you more for it. I know I would.

[Dave Willis]

Just a thought, your guy in the office - does he ever get off his lazy fat arse and lend a hand on the tools when the crap hits the fan?

[scud]

  About 6 months after I had moved in with my mrs, but before we were married, I came home from work on a Friday evening after a very hard week, I found her on the sofa moaning she was tired so hadn't cooked any tea - she only worked part time.

  i didn't say a word, just got showered and went to fetch a chinese, I came back with a full chinese meal, but on Sunday evening and told her there was a big queue.

  it put her in her place and she has never moaned about being tired again!

  My father always used to say "Son, they are all the same from the neck up"

[Danny Guest]

I always believe you need the full support of your partner when in business otherwise its not going to work.

You cant go to work to earn for your future then come home and having to fight your corner.

Tell her your working for her and your daughters future and the sacrifice you make being self employed is being done to improve your lives.

If she cant understand that i think its time to let her go

[Mist A Bit]

This sounds just like my ex . if i didn't get out the relationship my business would of gone down the drain. i started from scratch 2years ago. new missis is great, she leaflets for me in her spare time, helped me choose a new van and even helped bolt the system in. and she has her own job which the ex would never have. get out and don't let a woman control u- I.'ve leaned the hard way

[Richard iSparkle]

YES!  i get this too.  you need to put your batfink wings up when you get home   

[Rogue Trader]

is this thread for real!!! rolly eyes x 100

[Rogue Trader]

sounds like you need to man up with your missus and your employees

[james peters]

tell her you will ask the boss if you can go home and help out!   whats that? what? the boss says if you go home your sacked !!!
seriously... though... only you know your circimstances...
if she is finding it hard and is depressed... be there for her... and dont broadcast it on a forum

[CLEANCARE WC]

is this thread for real!!! rolly eyes x 100

BRING BACK THE ROLLY EYES!

[dazmond]

unless its one of your kids  in hospital or some other similar emergency the BUSINESS MUST COME FIRST!with her and the kids second!!tell her thats the way its gotta be.

my missus has cancer but she knows i wont finish early to see her just because shes not feeling well or tired.(we dont live together so thats a godsend for me!! ).i will have a day off to take her for chemo and cook her  tea at my flat and take it round a few times a week but she knows the business comes first.it has too!!

ive had a pretty good week earnings wise.only had today off but ill be working tomorrow to catch up so itll be like a regular weeks pay.

having a day off here and there and a few early finishes.weekends off etc,etc and you soon end up with a pile of work not getting cleaned for months at this time of year and your business going down the drain.

sometimes i really wonder about you richy!!!


best wishes


dazmond

[stuart mc]

cant kill em
n bury under the patio  

only way I need a patio, and if she doesn't stop her whining that is where she will be

love my kids but by feck I hate their mother sometimes

[kempy]

ummmm

[richywilts]

I have had other girlfriends in the past but god this one is very demanding I always stood up to them moaning with this one I back down for easy life!!! This on top of everything else has been one crap last year .she is pregnant again tho so gotta put it down to hormones etc I left her for while last time when she was pregnant as cudnt live with her she was nuts oh well only another 7 months to go!!!

[barry mallett]

  About 6 months after I had moved in with my mrs, but before we were married, I came home from work on a Friday evening after a very hard week, I found her on the sofa moaning she was tired so hadn't cooked any tea - she only worked part time.

  i didn't say a word, just got showered and went to fetch a chinese, I came back with a full chinese meal, but on Sunday evening and told her there was a big queue.

  it put her in her place and she has never moaned about being tired again!

  My father always used to say "Son, they are all the same from the neck up"

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