maybe the books that mini, you can't actually see it

and maybe if you were that mini they wouldn't of seen you coming.

but on a serious note, you won't let them see you coming next time, just learn from it and move on.
if anyone rings you promising you leads, give them a wide birth. there all after one thing, your money. there is no quick fix to getting work, use tried and tested ways to get work. websites, leaflets, your local papers. trusted ad mags, etc... and stop giving strangers your kids inheritance.