The e myth is the title of a book and i think it must have been written especially for us.Published in 95 and a bestseller ever since it addresses people who start a business and then get trapped by it. Trapped by having to work harder and harder and harder.
Trapped by not really haviing a business at all but merely a well paid job.
I'm in this trap and pretty fed up.I know a few of you have read it because it's been mentioned before on here.But if you haven't read it you can still have a view.
I'm coming up to four years in and all i do is work and work and work.If i carry on for another four is that all i have to look forward to?
I can't tell you what the book suggests as a solution because i am only half way through, but i do know that a few of you have found a way through, and i also know that many are in the same boat as me, and a few treat the job as a hobby.
So, thoughts please.It's okay to be as critical of me as you like- i can take it 
I don't think anyone else has mentioned this so here goes.
Many a tradesman/woman has been promoted to the manager/supervisor and feels great. All their hard work has been rewarded and they have made it. For a while they are happy with a bit more money for the family and kids so they live up to the new wage and all is good. Sometime along the way they become miserable in the job, their home life etc..
I have many friends in this position who hate the constant form filling, personnel issues...you get the idea. They are no longer doing what they enjoyed in the first place, ie. the trade they enjoyed. As an example my father is a carpenter at 68 years old from the age of 15 and still enjoys it. He wouldn't want to employ. he has worked hard and is well off. He knew that was what he wanted to do and never changed.
My point is if you become the boss and don't work , will you enjoy the money any more. You have swapped the trade that you probably enjoyed if the money worries were taken away for a different set of duties all together.
I think for some the better answer is to remain "on the tools" and find someone to run your day to day operation and develop your business for you. Almost become an employee and go home with a wage each week. By default the self employed version of the promoted manager at the start of this post is the tradesperson who went self employed, became too successful for his own good and now can't fit in the work around new quotes, invoicing, paperwork etc. Just because you are a good plumber, cleaner, sparky it doesn't follow you will run a good business but the jump to employing doesn't mean you have to be at the helm. In fact if you're not you are probably in a better position to ensure that the work and money are still being earnt while keeping an eye on the progress of your new employee.
If you are flat out meeting people, quoting, smoking around in the motor doing "stuff" the work can easily fall apart without your control and you end up putting out fires and pacifying old customers.
andy