just need a kick up the ass , think the long drawn out winter as made maters worse how can i get the kick start i need .
dont say money .
im finding it really hard to get back at it and gettin really peeeeeeeeed off with myself but no matter how hard i try i cant get going HELP .
Dave heres what you do....change your thinking. you dont realise how powerful your mind is. I think ive said this before in another post....why do we sometimes have bad days where we just wanna hide away or sit on our arse and do bugger all..but yet other days we feel invincible nothing will get in our way were happy and when things happen to knock our good feeling we brush it off and carry on regardless...WE ARE WHAT WE THINK!!
If you think lazy and unmotivated and negative you will be untill you change your thought process and you can change from being miserable to over joyed..unmotivated to motivated..... negative to positive in an instant in the click of your fingers.
Its not easy at first but once youve done it and proved it to yourself the bad days will become few and far between until eventually a miracle happens...you never have a bad day because you now know what it is that puts you in that state that everyone hates so much and when you know it you can change it before it takes over and ruins your day.
To some people this might sound like babble. But what have you got to lose.
So from now on evrytime a slight negative thought enters your head (being aware of it you will be surprised how often negatives enter your mind) change it to something positive like for instance what gets us down the most....the rain. when it rained before id look out side and straight away be negative..im not gonna be able to work, im gonna get wet and cold if i do , customers wont be happy if ido and so on.
Now what i do the first thing...i smile a proper cheesy smile and think and say to the wife brilliant its raining we need this rain to make sure theres plenty of water for cleaning windows, it gives me chance to phone through some quotes or arrange meeting potential customers, i can do that facia board job that i promised id do. youll be surprised how many good things you can think of about the rain.
Try it for a day and see how you feel.
and when you go to bed go to sleep positive, think of a joke that makes you laugh or something your child did or your wife or even your pet. think of a song that makes you feel good hum it or sing it.
Go to bed miserable and youll wake up miserable. Go to bed feeling great and you will wake up feeling great and when something happens to knock you...turn it into a positive or straight away think about something good and happy.
It really really works.
