Hi John,
Is it just that you don't want to run your pump flat out? What's wrong with just adjusting the pump setting?
I've just had to change my 60psi Flojet (it froze in the last cold snap and now it makes horrible noises so I'm going to open it up and see if I can renovate it) I've put in my spare 100psi Shurflo but turned the pressure down so I get a reasonable flow without overdoing it.
I just have a simple toggle switch between the battery and the pump, with a 15amp fuse in the line.
The pump works fine, gives a nice gentle flow and cuts off within a few seconds when I disconnect the pole.
I'm probably telling Granny how to suck eggs, but there's a tiny Allen screw in the pressure switch cover. Turn this one way to increase pressure/flow and the other to reduce it.
No need for bypass