wally,
The reason private messaging isn't here is that as soon as one of your (or anybody else's) posts hits the wind up threshold on some member's low tolerance point you will get threats and abuse.
If just for the sake of argument I called you a name on here, in the first place Ian would delete it, and in the second someone else would come on, support you and call me a name. Private messages however are more personal and therefore more intimidating.
We are all potential targets, you've had a good education for istance, some have religous beliefs, I myself have to suffer the cross of being a wfp pioneer and all round top bloke.To some this is just a red rag.