The real answer is (as John himself would tell you) is not to let the connects get in contact with any manmade fibres. The other answer is to always deal with as honest, fair minded and as equitable a person as you are yourself. Fortunately most of the time we do, but then you go and get the odd one who isnt. I have great simpathy for john, for I have recently been in a similar situation. You are trying to be fair with them but their attitude is that, you are just a worm and Im going to drive you deeper into the ground and get as much as I can possibly get out of you, you deamon, monster, critter, wholly lower person than I, how can you possibly be stating anything credible when I totally disagree with everything you say. Then the realtionship really starts to break down, because you have the gaul to stand up for yourself.
John, I know you will be fair, but dont let the B-------s grind you down.
Dave.