Oh dear, this thread is degenerating.
The avatar is fine for men, but as scrimshady says, it isn't fine for women, and it is overtly sexual even if not pornographic.
It is an avatar that will constantly generate 'wink' wink' comments.
Hence, whether I'm a killjoy or not, it has to go....and soon, else any threads he has started and any replies he has made and will make in the future will be deleted.
Ian