i dont need encouraging or discouraging  

I have been in this  for 29 years . 
what I  dont like is being belittled by idiots who think they know better...( no names mentioned) spouting nonsense
even after 29 years  I am learning off people on this forum . many who have less years experience than me .
I  am doing really well . but I dont feel i need to elevate myself and put others down . 
I am dipping my toe into other ventures like soft washing . I dont need to or need the money , but i want to to mix things up . 
smudger ...  splash and dash and zesty have really helped .
but i have been to scared to ask for advice at times  because every subject gets hijacked by a certain person spouting drivel . 
its so annoying .