What you mention is one of the things that have to be addressed first when setting it all up , no reciculating is involved in my setup , its right out of the boiler and into the hose reel .
I did have an issue in the early days when the pump did keep running for too long and cause lots of pressure within the system , this would result in over expansion of the hoses or i suppose super heating the water that is trapped within the heat excahanger of the boiler .
I got around this by firstly getting the DE settings correct on the flow controller , but more importantly having a suitable hose from boiler to reel , i tried normal hose which blew up like a modelling balloon , then onto washing machine hot feed hose , this was way better but still not ideal , now i will only use high heat steel overbraided hose , this is fantastic as hardly any expansion is possible .
You will still get expansion in the delivery hose , but its down to what you run as to how much expansion you get , i run 100 m of Gardiner green as main and pole hose via tubeless , and that stuff is the dogs danglers with regard to hot water and expansion is minimal as its damn tough stuff .