Many think a vat reg is an achievement like some sort of milestone of success. It`s not its a level of increased admin and state control of you business. I would always avoid at all costs. The only milestones is your business have become large enough for the state to be interested in it.
The truth of the matter is you will never make more money out of what you are allowed to claim. It`s a system for the tax man with no advantages for the owner. Just much admin and more state interference. It like a new partner that takes but never adds a penny.
I have heard of so many on herer announce the big day. I know i`s a load of crap as you to find out and will be difficult to turn around.
These are the facts of big is not always better.
Couldn't agree more.
I find it quite amusing when they "announce the big day"
It beggars belief the intellect of some of these "big boys" LMAO 
I actually don't think he'll lose many at all. In my experience once they have you and are happy with your service they'll keep you.
I'm not sure why you two would knock or decry "the big boys", or anyone trying to be big or achieve something. I could think of nothing worse than having to deal with VAT, more admin etc.., but of course i just work on my own. I guess the guys who are Ltd. , employ and are VAT registered don't like it either but they can take a week off and the business still rolls along making them a wage. Where mine (and possibly yours) just has an unpaid week off. Horses for courses and all that. Not everyone can put the brakes on when they've personally achieved enough like me (and probably you) , some people wanna keep on going.
And to be honest i like them to keep on going, as they do ,they incur more business costs along the way providing a niche for me to be far more cost effective for some than using a larger company (and its associated overheads).
So while some are foreward thinking using "go Cardless" etc... I'm utilising the "leave the money under a pot" method.
And while they're filling out VAT forms, i'm filling out a Working Tax Credit one !!

But ultimatley once you go bigger there's no getting away from it.