Thanks for the advice good advice lads.
I called again last night to the house and they sent two kids out , mam not here. She be back tomor. In keeping with rest of behaviour. For the record the mams car was there and one of kids that was sent was most certainly not at an age whereby she should/could be left on her own...,,
Ive called the husband tens of times to which he answered once, when he knew who i was suddenly he experienced a bout of bad reception promising to call back promptly for 24 hours later im still waiting....
Line in the sand, im done with it