I'm afraid I don't know exactly what effect soap does long term on rubber outer seals so I can't comment either way, but I know what sun light does to rubber in the hot, baking African sun.
We bought a dormer 12 years ago which had new UPVC windows 3 years previously. All the windows that were south facing had 'blown' but those that were north facing were fine and still fine today. We window cleaner who cleaned the house only cleaned the ground floor windows and never touched the bedroom windows - he was trad in those days and couldn't get to them safely.
In my opinion, I won't be surprised if the sun was 99% to blame for the failure of those front windows. These front windows of ours are shielded from the battering winds, whereas the north facing rear ones aren't, so sonic forces have a minimal effect on our windows.
We have a large UPVC panel next to the front door which is half window and half UPVC panel. That is east facing and that has also blown, which I put down to the impact of opening and closing the front door.
Over the years I have noticed that its mostly the large south facing windows that go first and the openers.
I have also noticed that the majority of 'blown' windows do mist up more after I have cleaned them. This I believe is because the gap between the glass has been cooled when washing and rinsing the windows. As warm air holds more moisture than cool air, the cooled air lets the moisture go, just like condensation on the inside of a bathroom or kitchen window, especially if it is single glasing.
Every time we clean a window that's spacer bar between the glass has broken down, we add to the existing problem as the window breathes through the gap where the spacer bar has failed. When the glass warms up, the warm air expands and the window 'breathes' out.
When the glass cools every evening, it 'breathes' back in as the air inside contracts. We add one more cycle every time we clean the windows. If the outer seals on the window have deteriorated, then moisture or water getting behind that into the frame could also find its way in as the window is breathing in damp air.
We haven't caused the problem so it isn't anything to do with us. Replacing the unit is the only successful solution.