Hi Tim
I would be inclined to rig the heater up outside the van with some exhaust piping and see if you notice the same thing.
I would have thought that hot air rising would have created sufficient draw to not get any 'blow back'.
If it works fine in this experiment, then it could be the mushroom vent is restricting the exhaust gas. If everything was working well, then you shouldn't have needed to bypass the safety sensor IMHO.
I also feel that fitting a Flettner rotating air extractor needs careful consideration as the van will be more difficult to keep frost free in winter. Yes, it will keep the van dry by creating in internal airflow, but it will take any warmth in the air out as well.