Speaking from the dark side of this forum, (The window licking section
) I can honestly say that being a regular poster on there, I got bored answering the same old questions all the time and watching the same old moans and topics week in, week out. IMO, the main reason "Older posters" don't come onto any section is boredom with the same old stuff.
I've seen window cleaners come over here and ask the same old question nearly every week. "Thinking of having CC as an add on" blah blah. Most of you can't be bothered to answer, and I don't blame you. Moderators have slapped a 7 day ban on me for being naughty and childish (In their opinion) and that happens when they think the forum could be dragged down or damaged. That's their job. Some can do the job well.............
Sometimes they will delete or lock threads and posts and upset some of us. So what? Just start another thread and modify it. In other words, it's their train set, and they run it as best they can. Nobody is perfect, just accept that they make mistakes.
Having said that, a moderator that says "If you don't like it, cancel your account" may one day regret typing that. The tone of a forum is made by
the people who run it. 20,000 members is no so great if only 25 bother posting. Arrogance isn't a sign of a good moderator.
By the way, people like myself, who use a nickname, aren't hiding if we put our details on our profile. If you know how to look at a persons profile, you will see my tel number, web address and full name.
In a forum, it doesn't matter what nick name you use, as long as you don't try to hide IMO.