I see your point Helen but this is forum not a post it note.
A forum is “an online discussion site where people can hold conversations in the form of posted messages” (Wikipedia)
The whole purpose of a conversation is for it to progress and explore, if you were in a pub with friends and someone said something had happened to someone you knew you would not say “oh dear how sad, now let’s move on to another pub so we can discuss the implications of what happened.
If this thread ends up discussing world poverty or the best rubber for your squeegee I don’t see the problem. That’s what conversations do. It in no way detracts from the gravity of what has happened or shows a lack of respect or concern; it’s just normal conversation by normal people.
As you rightly pointed out “The thread is about someone, who was trying to do right by his family, who may now die, who may have serious damage to his body and /or brain if he survives. “
And the fact we are now having this “conversation” is keeping the post bumped to the top, hopefully it has also become somewhat interesting, and still topical! so more people will read it and think maybe I should re-consider wfp,
If this conversation makes just one person sit up and think, it was worthwhile.
Very good point. Needed saying. Locking posts is bad. We are all grown-ups, and nearly all of us are window cleaners. Discussion is good. I see what Helen means, but in this case, let the people discuss
