after a little research i have found this and think i might give it a go, and its free

this is the write up about it >
TeamViewer is easily the best free remote access software I've ever used. There are tons of features, which is always great, but it's also extremely easy to install. No changes to router or firewall configurations are needed.
With support for video, voice-only, and text chat, TeamViewer also allows file transfers, supports wake-on-LAN (WOL), and can even remotely reboot a PC into Safe Mode and then reconnect automatically.
Host Side
The computer you want to connect to with TeamViewer can be a Windows, Mac, or Linux computer.
A full, installable version of TeamViewer is one option here, and is probably the safe bet if you're not sure what to do. A portable version, called TeamViewer QuickSupport, is a great choice if the computer you want to remote control will only need to be accessed once or if installing software on it isn't possible. The third option, TeamViewer Host, is the best choice if you'll be regularly connecting to this computer.
Client Side
TeamViewer has a number of options for connecting to the computer you want to control.
Installable and portable programs are available for Windows, Mac, and Linux, as well as mobile apps for iOS, Android, Windows Phone, and Windows 8. Yes - that means you can use your phone or tablet to connect to your remotely controlled computers while on the go.
TeamViewer also lets you also use a web browser to remotely access a computer.
A number of other features are also included, like the ability to share a single application window with someone else (instead of the whole desktop) and the option to print remote files to a local printer.
or have a look here >
http://pcsupport.about.com/od/remote-access/fl/teamviewer-review.htm