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Frankybadboy

  • Posts: 9024
Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #40 on: March 05, 2012, 07:28:59 am »
exercise does it for me,weather it running,biking road or mtbiking and swimming being outside in the great outdoors is my way,often with a great bunch of lads,but do enjoy me own company.

i do a min of 45 mins aday,but when having abad day then i let lose,and go for it.

being in a gym doesnt work for me and cost money ;D

Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #41 on: March 05, 2012, 07:36:44 am »
SOme useful posts here esp what Tosh said.

I suffered from lack of motivation and then depression, I guess I am still prone to it now.

Beating it can take time but it is beatable.

I take it on along with exercise and attack it the same way.

You cant run a marathon on day one, you have to build up to it maybe with a couple of miles to start with.

The next time you go further then futher still.
You will have setbacks but the trick is to compare with day one and not yesterday.

WIth work set a reasonable goal and when you get there go home, the following day try beating it by a small amount.

Keep doing this and build up slowly, when you have a bad day compare to day one not yesterday and you will see just how you have improved.

If its really bad have a 'rest day' and start afresh tomorrow.

Find someone to 'offload' on, someone who is realistic and positive, pref someone who has been through the same. Its not a kick up the backside you need or a reminder of bills or how bad things could be, so ignor those who say it is.

If you cant find anyone, call me my mobile is on my website. Most important dont deal with it alone.

Stuart

steveo22

  • Posts: 330
Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #42 on: March 05, 2012, 07:45:52 am »
SOme useful posts here esp what Tosh said.

I suffered from lack of motivation and then depression, I guess I am still prone to it now.

Beating it can take time but it is beatable.

I take it on along with exercise and attack it the same way.

You cant run a marathon on day one, you have to build up to it maybe with a couple of miles to start with.

The next time you go further then futher still.
You will have setbacks but the trick is to compare with day one and not yesterday.

WIth work set a reasonable goal and when you get there go home, the following day try beating it by a small amount.

Keep doing this and build up slowly, when you have a bad day compare to day one not yesterday and you will see just how you have improved.

If its really bad have a 'rest day' and start afresh tomorrow.

Find someone to 'offload' on, someone who is realistic and positive, pref someone who has been through the same. Its not a kick up the backside you need or a reminder of bills or how bad things could be, so ignor those who say it is.

If you cant find anyone, call me my mobile is on my website. Most important dont deal with it alone.

Stuart
Cheers Stuart

dazmond

  • Posts: 24450
Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #43 on: March 05, 2012, 08:17:26 am »
Luckily for me I'm part of a charity that helps me immensely without havin to resort to booze! ;D.

We all need some sort of therapy at times.today the sun is shining and all worksheets and invoices are printed out for the week.van tank full to the brim ready for work.a good breakfast down me.time for a coffee then ill be out there.

As I guy who had so many problems I despaired id ever beat them I'm doin ok!

Best wishes to you all

Dazmond
price higher/work harder!

Steve Sed

Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #44 on: March 30, 2012, 05:32:59 pm »
I got myself some St Johns Wort yesterday, after some recommendations, we'll see how that goes!?!

St John's Wort. PMSL. Man up.  ;)

steveo22

  • Posts: 330
Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #45 on: March 30, 2012, 06:43:11 pm »
 :'( Hurtings!!
I got myself some St Johns Wort yesterday, after some recommendations, we'll see how that goes!?!

St John's Wort. PMSL. Man up.  ;)

steveo22

  • Posts: 330
Re: Low Motivation?
« Reply #46 on: March 30, 2012, 06:47:34 pm »
Thinking back, it all started after my dog trauma, I still wake up sweating thinking about that evil Westy!!