I am one step closer to sorting it now!
cant believe I've overlooked this for so long.
Yes the pressure guage did read 30 psi after the prefilters situated 2 meters from the mains tap
just re arranged everything and put prefilters and guage 1.5 meters before ro (1st floor landing) thats now about 5 meters + from the tap, yep you've guessed it = reduction in pressure, realistically its been supplying water at more like 15 psi to the ro.
This isnt a new set up either, I've had this nearly 4 years STUPID ME :

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Being in a top floor flat of a coverted house with the gf hallway being a communal one, I have no option but to run as much hose as I do from tap to ro (not without plumbing work anyhow which not really an option and want to move asap)
Booster pump now top of my list

Simon