I did have the stop cock fully open, the pump is about 30 mtrs away in the garage, the extra holding tank seems to work ok.
Hi, suggestion was more for henryfitz.
Holding tank is a good idea. I used to use a similar system in my previous house.
Holding tank - large booster pump - water softener - pump - RO.
Worked well until the booster pump broke down. I had to increase pressure/flow to RO pump for it to work so I was able to adjust the pressure reducing valve on our mains supply and by-pass holding tank.