I've been asking for a while what this RO bak filter is, and can't seem to get a straight answer!
I would say that it is possible from what I've read to get a DIY RO setup with only 20% waste,.. but getting down to zero beats me.
To get the 20% waste, you would need a pressure pump on the system, running close to your membranes quoted max pressure. You would also need a minimum of 3 membranes, the second plumbed into the waste line of the first etc. Then the correct flow regulator on the waste line from the last membrane is essential. RO-Man could advise on the specifics, as too much back pressure can damage the membranes.
It would be interesting to find out the TDS of the final waste, and what effect passing it through different filters would have. I'd assume that the TDS would be very high, and that any filter used to clean it prior to recycling through the RO would not last very long.