Paul
She gave me one last chance to order the new carpet for her, then she said she was going to hand it over to her legal team (I think her home insurance said they would take up the challange).
Her date expired Dec 24th.
So far heared nothing but I am sure I will.
If she is still going to be involved maybe she is delaying cause her baby is due about 20th if I remember correctly.
Like John Gregory, it is always in your mind. Every time the postman comes you wonder if there will be a solicitors letter.
When, if, anything comes I will be consulting a solicitor for advice.
I took one of my domestic cleaners to small claims 2 years ago (took 16 months to get her to court).
She had fiddled her time on a regular basis ie daily, in a office clean where you gain accesss thro a electronic tag - so all times were recorded.
As it was so clear to see I handled my own case, but she got free representation from some council tax funded legal advice, and she won.
So I paid for her defence (via council tax)!!
That was a spread over 16 months and part way thro I got anonymous mail accusing me of being something rather nasty.
Went straight to the police with it. Upshot was, they thought it would be her but as it was only 1 letter they would not do anything with it, not even give her a visit. They suggested I contacted her, tell her I had taken a piece of unwanted mail to the police, who are taking it seriously, and if any more came then action would be taken.
No more came, but I am sure you can imagine the mental torture you go thro. Not just on the accusation, but then "waiting" for the next one to arrive. Or worse still, the letter threatened to pass it (the lie) thro the neigbourhood.
No more did come, but when the court case came I had said to myself "win or lose - it will be finished" (as long as she did'nt start again).
Not a happy time in my life.
but then I thought - I only lost a few hundred quid pay thro a faulty justice system.... some have lost their freedom for things they have never done........ and others have gone free for serious crimes they have done.