Waste to pure is anything from 3:1 down to 1:1 (yeah I know, there are some zero waste ones about now too) so it all depends on the system you use, the more you spend then the lower the waste.
What sort of soak away are you talking about?
If you get one of the small R/O systems the waste wate is only coming out at a trickle, it is nothing like the flow rate if you just turn the outside tap on!
I drilled a tiny hole into one of the downpipes from the guttering around the house, and fitted the waste pipe into that...I hardly ever even think about the waste now.
Ian