Hi John
I have probably over used the term water instead of moisture.
When leather is tanned the level of oils and fats reintroduced into the leather to soften it is carefully balanced and locked in and as a general rule do not come ouit of the leather. If the leather is going stiff or dry feeling then it needs additional moisture to rehydrate it , this will then soften the leather.
Adding oils and fats will upset the balance that was achieved during the tanning process. Leather in car upholstery is always heavily finished and the absorption rate is slow, therefore if any oils or waxes are used for cleaning and 'conditioning' they remain on the surface and do nothing but attract more dirt.
Moisture levels do reach an equilibrium but if that equilibrium is below what is suitable for the leather ie. in centrally heated houses then to keep the leather soft and supple wiping with a damp cloth will help to balance that equilibrium and using water based products to clean and protect will also do this. This moisture content is not something that we as leather technicians would measure but just a feel that you get when dealing with it on a regular basis. Any excess will evaporate slowly but not damage the leather but we are not throwing buckets of water at it!!!!
It is not necessary to over complicate the process.
Regards
Judy