Firstly you should have two inline fuses for your split charge relay (I'm going on the assumption its an intelligent relay)
One between van battery and relay, and one between relay and leisure battery (have the fuses as close to batteries as possible)
The 30amp fuse you've been provided should be fine. The inline fuses you have should be in accordance to the max out put of your split charger (nothing to do with pump draw, battery size etc...)
So if you have a 30amp relay, the a 30amp fuse should be fine
(On a side note, the 30amp means you charge 30amps per hour, so if you have a 70ah battery it'd take just over 2 hours of your van being on to charge the leisure battery in theory)
As susie has said, the fuses are there in case of a power spike or failure, the fuse blows first so not to blow your relay and wiring (hence why you put the fuse as close to the batteries as possible)