I've had the same problem and it's driven me nuts (and cost me time) and this now works for me:
1. Fit an Aqua-dapta to your pole. Whether you think they are good or bad, I have this for one purpose only; it manages my hose better! I'm not interested in turning the water on and off cause my tap used to do that. But the curl of extra hose used to bug me. Also, it means your connector is further away from you so you don't accidentally tread on it.
2. Fit a small protector ball to the end of your pole hose (not a large one, it gets caught on everything).
3. Stop the protector ball slipping up the pole hose using electrical tape curled round about 10 times (not an 'O' hose fitting it gets caught on everything).
I currently use the EZ Snap fittings from Gardiners and haven't had single break since using this setup. But I do actually prefer the plastic ones from AD, they are lighter and I find they last longer. They are also in stock now too.
That's me sorted
