Well that messer was me!
We met looked at the work kev is a really nice guy it seemed like a good deal because i do have a few days at the same post code,i was more interested in helping you out kev then the money but the big mistake i made was not mentioning my past experience to you the 1st day ,
remember the way i asked i said "please dont be offended by what im going to ask"i did explain what happend before with that £185 and i suggested after about 45 mins if you were happy with me and the work that you could possibly pay me upfront for the rest of the day as its the 1st time i only wanted the payment after 45 mins not when i turned up i do hope i made that clear?(My partner and i thought this was reasonable

she is also the boss of me!:)
as a rule any job which takes me more then 2 hours that's subcontract or domestic customer houses i do ask for an advance (for 1st cleans only)some people may or may not think this is reasonable but end of the day we are self employed and we can all choose the best methods that suite us so you see its not that i did not trust you i have been working like this for a while now.in fact i could see you were an honest person but i thought you might have understood where i was coming from which i think you did but you wasnt prepared to meet my request...and we said no hard feelings in the end.
Ofc you are your own boss too and i guess you did not like the idea of paying me after 45 mins which i understood fair enof.(its the 1st time you meet me too and i honestly do not blame you if i was put in the same situation i may react the same way i was thinking about it afterwards)
After we spoke even thou i had that bad experience in the past i do feel with you i should have just turned up and trusted you i do feel i made a mistake with you so im sorry about that!
but I am pleased you finished the work in very good time that is quite impressive!
well done that was some glass!
but im sorry again how things went im working next week in surbiton i normally have my lunch at the duke of buckingham just on the bottem of villiers ave if i see you anytime around ill buy you Dinner and a drink!