Bulkheads, even metal ones are made from 1-1.5mm steel, and have almost zero structural strength. They are there to keep the wind and cold out of the cab, nothing else. You can bend that metal just with the strength of your hand.
If you attach something as heavy as a tank of water to one, it will buckle just from the strain of the tank pulling/pushing on it at the fixing points during normal driving.
My advice, for what its worth, is not to faff about trying to save a hundred quid here or there, life is too short. Just get a system professionally installed, the cost isnt that great. I paid £2,700 for my 400 litre pure2o system, including vat and fully installed. Never had a bit of bother with it. (And its secured to the van chassis - nice and safe)