I think Derek had the best sentiments on the whole matter in his latter posting.
In the past I too got my self so wound up with bad feeling to certain people within the industry, but found that all it was doing was eating me up.
I have learned since though, that to forgive and forget and move on gives you a great deal of piece of mind.
It has been very dificult for me to come to terms with doing this, but I now harbour no grudges and feel much better for it.
It is a bigger man who can learn to do this. Hope that helps!
Regards
Robert Olifent (alias Dear Deardrie)